So, yesterday I met up with a client turned friend (which is pretty much synonymous for me) and we were chatting about life and work, etc. We got on the topic of my blog and she was saying how when she first read it she thought this girl is a bit sassy (which is ironic since I call her the sassy mom). I’ve never heard anyone describe my writing before and this got me thinking….
Bare with me a moment. So, once upon a time I had a boss who berated me (often) for wearing my heart on my sleeve. I started to believe this was a bad thing and worked hard to be the expressionless mask he so seemed to desire. It became ingrained in me to hold back a bit - to mold what I said and did around the rules he had provided. When I opened my own business, I applied much of what I had learned from him thinking this was the correct business approach. It didn’t feel comfortable. And when I slipped and did wear my heart on my sleeve or talk to a client as a friend, I felt like I had failed. And that didn’t feel comfortable either.
And then, somewhere along the line through writing for my blog and in that defining much about myself and my business, I realized - me and my business are one and the same. I am my art. What you see visually is an extension of my heart, my passion. Me and my camera - we are one - my camera is the professional tool, but the person is me. I cannot run this business with an expressionless mask. I can only run this business as me.
And so I stopped putting up so many boundaries and started writing more from the heart, working more from the heart…which, I’ve discovered actually does belong, to some extent, on my sleeve. I won’t lie - I doubt myself often, like, did I say too much? Was that too personal? Do you think people will know I’m joking? I wish - often - that I didn’t doubt myself so - often. But, as is life, I’m a work in progress and probably will be until I die. I hope, though, that at least by the time I’m 90 (I know, high hopes) I’ll have gotten to where my grandmother did and face the world with a who cares attitude (no joke, this still makes me smile, my 90 year old grandmother would sit there in her little wheelchair with this completely unconcerned look on her face, her puff of unruly white hair, shrug her shoulders and say who cares. In the end, it was her response to just about everything).
So, back to sassy…sassy by definition means ‘lively, spirited, jaunty’ (I’m going to leave out ‘rude’ and ‘disrespectful’ because that’s never my intention and someone needs to smack me if I ever cross that line). That sounds like a girl who wears her heart on her sleeve. And probably oversteps sometimes and says too much. But if you follow the heart of the words and the artist then you’ll know - its all meant in fun and with goodness.
Okay, the Spring Fling Designer Showcase and Photo Event continues to get sweeter and sweeter. I’m SO excited! P-umped! Our list of prizes continues to grow (hey, can I win a few of those?). Here’s a few of the businesses giving away prizes:
Wacky Tacky, Crush Clothing, Ambience Floral Design, Sutter Homes, Bellia Mia Designs, Purdy Things, Maggie Smith Change.Love. Surrender CD and more! Check out some samples below!
Shanna of Crush Clothing in The Fountains has given us 4 $30 gift certificates to be given away throughout the day!

The designer herself! Beautiful Carmella of Bellia Mia Designs showing off the adorable spring dress she’s giving away during the day. Picture it with a hot pink hat and shoes. SO cute!

We love Wacky Tacky! WiFi, coffee, a nice area for adults and tons of crazy fun for kids!

2nd prize raffle by Bella Rose Naturals - just think…spa…..ahhhhhhh. I can say because I’m sold on these products that they are DELIGHTFUL! Gift basket includes neck wrap, body scrub, lip balm, and drawer scent packs (probably a nicer name for them but when you smell them, you won’t care, you’ll just want it) (value $70)

Third prize raffle fun - Scentsy Warmer with Tangerine Tango scent packs (available for sale on Bella Rose Naturals website). ($30 value) LOVE THIS! Just take a whiff of the studio when you’re here - we’ll have one going as a teaser…

of course, the whole Sac Kings basket is loaded but if you’re like me, you’ll zero in on these…tickets! Love these - lower level with a value of (just the tickets alone - not counting the rest of the basket) $230.

IMPORTANT UPDATE: We’ve extended the raffle to a first, second and third prize. First prize will be the Sacramento Kings basket and a photo session with me plus an 11×14 print, second prize will be a yummy gift basket from Bella Rose Naturals (pictured above), and third prize is Scentsy Warmer (pictured above)! Lots of good stuff!!
You can also now purchase raffle tickets at Platinum Auto Salon across the way from my studio. If you happen to be in the area, drop by! If I’m not in (if the door is locked, I’m in session otherwise, it’s always open for visitors) check with Charlie across the way. And once again, all raffle sales go to Loaves and Fishes. I have a goal of raising $500 for them so please help us make our goal and do some goodness in the process!
You do NOT need a session appointment to come by the studio for the Spring Fling Designer Showcase and Photo Event! This is an open house event - come anytime to enter the raffle, check out our designer showcases, help yourself to a yummy treat and just say hi! Visitors welcome all day long!